or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”
With this whole lawsuit thing going on ive really let myself get down about it, and feel really discouraged. Luckily Joel is more like Stephanie than I am and has really helped me to feel better about the whole situation. He said to me one day when I was being really bratty and sad about it, "Babe the worst that could happen to us is losing some money, Its only Money! Its not going to ruin our lives. We will have chance after chance to make back any money we could lose. Once the case is over, its 100% over and we dont ever have to look back." (good thing I save my texts so I cant get it worded right)
After he said this all of my worries went away. I was being so negative about the whole thing. Thinking, urgh we will lose so much money, urgh my life is over. But I guess thats why I've been blessed with such a wonderful, tender-hearted, loving husband. :)
So Ive decided that I need to be more like my beautifully amazing sister in-law Stephanie, and my awe inspiring husband. I need to stop looking at the situations life presents me with a bad attitude and start being happy and optimistic. I have been given SO much that I take for granted and I am going to start focusing on those things, rather than the bad ones.
And on a side note, Steph has started moving her arms! wahoo!!! Im so proud of her and the progress she's making- she's amazing!